( Written by Alex Jones and cross-posted from Toronto Social Circle)
The Happiness Principle: Social Networking Events and Overall Happiness
A Harvard Medical Review Study showed that happiness is contagious. James H. Fowler PhD is famous for his research on social networks and their affects on happiness. James H. Fowler’s breaking research also led him on to the Colbert Report.
Fowler’s research shows the power that social networks are contagious. For example, people are more likely to develop obesity if they communicate with other people who are gaining weight. Also, the study showed that people were more likely to give up smoking if people within their social network were giving up smoking.
Therefore, attending social events will increase your happiness. The reason is that you are meeting new people and you are increasing your likely hood of meeting happy people. The more people you meet, the more happiness is possible.
The argue could also state that the more people you meet the more depressive people you would meet. However, if you meet someone who doesn’t float your boat, you do not have to communicate with them.
The data is conclusive that increasing social networks will increase your happiness.
When you increase your network you are increasing your possibilities. It’s a game of numbers. The potential is greater. Sometimes an organized event may be your best bet in these cases. If you are shy, or not comfortable, an organized event is the perfect place to go. Everything is set up for you, all you have to do is show up.
Initiating games or other events can aid in bringing about a more familiar vibe and let people loosen up a bit. However, statistics show that you need to put yourself out there, and meet people. Having a healthy social life is proven to increase your overall happiness.
1. How to find out what’s going on in your city?
The internet is probably the best place to go. Search events in the city or other keywords that might bring out what you’re looking for. There are some major companies that provide events by people in the city.
2. Look to the people you know.
See what they are doing. They might be able to point you in a direction of a place to meet people.
3. Through your network.
This is the most traditional of all the routes. Go out with the people you know. Eventually you will meet their friends, so on and so forth.
However, in reality, your social network is determined by your willingness to meet people. Striking up a conversation with someone at a coffee shop might will surprise you. People are out there to mingle, you just need to be ready for the responses.
One also needs to increase their demographic. Meaning the more you limit yourself to only meeting a certain type of people, the more you are limiting your capability of meeting people. It’s a game of numbers, and the more people you will meet the more likely chance you will meet people.